I think internet dating has its place, but don’t spend all you time looking at profiles

Keep your options open, take up invitations to things and get out there, you never know who you are going to meet.

And the men who abuse women on dating sites for politely rejecting them aren’t aggressive and angry?

the fact is though ladies online don’t need to try and seek just filter so they can become a little princessy though this is no fault of their own but of all the males out there lol

Like others have said, don’t rely on online dating to meet “the one” but think of it more as the chance to get out of your comfort zone and just meet people to talk to

don’t give up everyone! there are always options out there and the biggest impact/factor/influence on our own lives is ourselves that’s correct it is that simple 🙂 therefore if we are as ourselves in a nice place I think that will make it easier for another guy/girl to come into that place with us 🙂

Ditch the online dating, be different, do the opposite, go and talk to women in real life. online is for lazy people, take initiative, women want a man, be one.

I have only just joined a site myself and looked at the women’s profiles that are in my age group and it’s either they are just looking for a hookup or they have a very long list of what they are not looking for – which makes them come across as having a lot of baggage or very aggressive/angry.

The men’s profiles usually just say they don’t want anyone with baggage or drama which is fair enough considering that a lot of guys I have met so far all have stories about the psycho women they have met through the site, some of which I have to say are pretty out there.

Same here, to be honest as an average looking guy it’s been clear that you can (or could otherwise, I’m happily married/faithful) meet romantic others pretty much anywhere, at the local shops, the bus stop, whatever. Given the semi-regular ‘well hi there’ I get from pleasant young (presumably) single women in my area who don’t seem to be nutters, I’d say just get out there and mingle, young single people, it’s all right there in front of you every day.

I have only just joined a site myself and looked at the women’s profiles that are in my age group

they have a very long list of what they are not looking for – which makes them come across as having a lot of baggage or very aggressive/angry.

There’s really nothing wrong with being upfront about what you don’t want so nobodies time is wasted and feelings aren’t hurt. Turning this into accusations of baggage and anger just comes across as classic projection.

dating sites are hilarious.. just look at all the demands of young women for good men, ie top 1%, good high paying job, car, home etc. Now just assuming the vast majority of this top 1% men aren’t settled already, why would they want a 5/10 girl whose EGO has been blown sky high from attention from males from tinder/online dating(who are only after one thing and that is not a real relationship). now as these young 20s girls get a little older, they realise their youth is fading fast, hitting the metaphorical wall. now they stress, trying to find a decent guy only to find they are all gone. literally scraping the bottom the barrel. TLDR: if you’re a decent dude you dont have to worry, time is always on your side